I sometimes think that it is harder to find the right pillow than it is to find the right mattress. I have had many over the years that I liked but I had yet to find a pillow that I loved. That is until I stumbled upon the Quest pillow by Glideaway Sleep Products. Holy Moly is this thing awesome. They have pioneered a fiber based memory foam that gives you the benefit of sleeping on memory foam without feeling like your head is on a rock. It is nice and soft but not so soft that you loose the support and pressure relief you would want from memory foam. The shape is also unique. It made into a U shape that is perfect for side sleep and back sleep. I have to admit I was leery at first because it is a cooling pillow. In the past I have found that most cooling pillows are far to cold to be useful. I dint want to feel like I am sleeping on a block of ice. The Quest uses a cooling fabric that cools it just enough and it also has a cotton side for times when you want a more temperature neutral option. As far as I can tell this is a pillow that you will have to seek out. Its online availability is limited so I recommend looking at your local Mattress Gallery to give it a try. It is certainly worth the trip.